“What are you feeling, right now?”
Often lately I think the most two people have to give one another, in loving connection, is the truth of their feelings in a moment. “I feel nervous and energized. This post comes from a deep place...
View ArticleYou had sex. Now she’s hurt.
On my mind this morning is a scenario many of my male friends will recognize. You meet a woman. She’s in a vulnerable space. Maybe you are too, or less so, or less consciously so. You feel protective...
View ArticleNo, your child is not your friend
Update: I’ve been reflecting with a friend about how this post feels more stern than I’d like. Let’s say I have personal experience, though not yet as a parent. I’m tempted to edit the piece to adjust...
View ArticleThe start of time, between lovers
I’ve noticed sometimes that the beginning of a relationship is the start of time between lovers. The start of the present being anchored in an imagined future, rather than in what is alive and real....
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